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The Careful Use of Compliments by Alexander McCall Smith

Rating:

***

 

(Recommended)

 

 

 

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Alexander McCall Smith has resumed his Isabel Dalhousie series when her son Charlie is three months old. In The Careful Use of Compliments, Isabel continues to reflect on life, moral choices, and relationships. Her love of Jamie grows deeper, and she is challenged for leadership of the Review of Applied Ethics. Cat plays a big role, as does Grace. While readers of the previous books in the series may enjoy this new offering more than novices, this book stands on its own for readers who want to sample these characters and their ongoing life stories. Here’s an excerpt, from the beginning of Chapter 3, pp. 30-33:

 

By the time Grace arrived at the house the next morning, Isabel had bathed Charlie, given him his breakfast bottle, and was standing in front of the drawing-room window, encouraging him to look out over the garden. She was not sure how much he saw, but she was convinced that he was interested and was gaz­ing fixedly at one of the rhododendrons. As she held Charlie before the window and rocked him gently, Isabel saw Grace walking up the front path, although Grace did not spot her. Grace had a newspaper tucked under her arm and was carrying the white canvas tote bag that accompanied her to work each day. This bag was often empty, and hung flaccid from Grace's arm, but on occasion it bulged with tantalizing shapes that intrigued Isabel and that she wished she could ask Grace about. She knew, though, that there was usually at least a book in the bag, as Grace was a keen reader and had a sacrosanct lunch hour during which she would sit in the kitchen, immersed in a novel from the Central Library, a cup of tea getting steadily colder in front of her.

Since Charlie's arrival, the nature of Grace's job had changed. This change had required no negotiation, with Grace assuming that Isabel would need help with the baby and that naturally this would take priority over her normal, more mun­dane duties of cleaning and ironing.

"I'll look after him while you're working," Grace had announced. "And also when you want to go out. I like babies. So that's fine." The tone of her voice indicated that there needed to be no further discussion.

Isabel was happy with the new understanding, but even had she not been, she would have hesitated to contradict Grace. Although Isabel was nominally Grace's employer, Grace regarded herself as still working for Isabel's father, who had died years before and in whose service as housekeeper she had spent all her working life. Either that, or she thought of herself as being employed in some strange way by the house itself; which meant that her loyalty, and source of instructions, was really some authority separate from and higher than Isabel.

The practical consequences of this were that Grace occa­sionally announced that something would be done because "that's what the house needs." Isabel thought this a curious expression, which made her home sound rather like a casino or an old-fashioned merchant bank—in both of which one might hear the staff talking about the house. But for all its peculiarity, "the arrangement worked very well and indeed was welcomed by Isabel as a means of putting the relationship between herself and Grace on a more equal, and therefore easier, footing. Isabel did not like the idea of being an employer, with all that this entailed in terms of authority and power. If Grace regarded her­self as being employed by some vague metaphysical body known as the house, then that at least enabled Isabel to treat her as a mixture of friend and colleague, which is precisely how she viewed her anyway.

Of course the circumstances in which the two women found themselves were different, and no amount of linguistic sleight of hand could conceal that. Isabel had enjoyed every advantage in education and upbringing; there had been money, travel, and, ultimately, freedom from the constraints of an office job or its equivalents. Grace, by contrast, had come from a home in which there had been no spare money, little free time, and, in the background, the knowledge that unemployment might at any time remove whatever small measure of prosperity people might have attained.

Grace went into the kitchen, put the tote bag down on a chair, and made her way into the morning room.

"I'm here," Isabel called out. "In the study."

Grace entered the room and beamed at Charlie. "He's look­ing very bright and breezy," she said, coming up to tickle Charlie under the chin. Charlie grinned and waved his arms in the air-.

"I think he wants to go to you," said Isabel.

Grace took Charlie in her arms. "Of course he does," she said.

It was not the words themselves, Isabel realised—it was more the inflection. Did Grace mean that it was no surprise that Charlie should want to go to her rather than stay with his mother? That was how it sounded, even if Grace had not meant` it that way.

"He actually quite likes me too," said Isabel softly.

Grace looked at her in astonishment. "But of course he does," she said. "You're his mother. All boys like their mothers."

"No," said Isabel. "I don't think they do. Some mothers suf­focate their sons, emotionally. They don't mean to, but it hap­pens." She looked out of the window. She had seen it in her family, in a cousin whose ambitious mother had nagged him until he had cut himself free and had as little as possible to do with her. He had been civil, of course, but everybody had seen it—the stiff posture, the formal politeness, the looking away when she spoke to him. But had he loved her, in spite of this? She remembered him at his mother's funeral when he had wept, quietly but voluminously, and Isabel, sitting in the row behind him, had put her hand on his shoulder and whis­pered to him in comfort. We leave it too late, she had thought; we always do, and then these salutary lessons are learned at the graveside.

"Mothers always mean well," said Grace. "As long as they don't try to choose their son's wife. That's a mistake."

Charlie looked up at Grace and smiled. I have enough, thought Isabel; I have so much that surely I can share him.

Grace turned towards Isabel. Her face, Isabel noticed, seemed transformed by the close presence of the baby, her look at that moment one of near pride. "Do you want to work this morning?" she said, looking in the direction of Isabel's over­crowded desk. "There's not much to do in the house. I could look after Charlie."

Isabel felt a wrench. Part of her wanted to answer that she would decide for herself, in good time, whether she wanted to work or whether she wished simply to be with Charlie; but another part of her, the responsible part, felt she should deal with the pile of correspondence that she had started to tackle the previous day but that she had abandoned in favour of the auctioneer's catalogue. There were two horses in the soul, she thought, as Socrates had said in Phaedrus—the one, unruly, gov­erned by passions, pulling in the direction of self-indulgence; the other, restrained, dutiful, governed by a sense of shame. And Auden had felt the same, she thought; he was a dualist who knew the struggle between the dark and the light sides of the self, the struggle that all of us know to a greater or lesser extent.

 

There’s a feeling of eavesdropping on the mind when reading these Dalhousie novels. She’s a fascinating character and her thoughts are packed with insights. The Careful Use of Compliments allows this cast of characters to continue to grow and develop.

 

Steve Hopkins, November 20, 2007

 

 

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